Love your Life!

Dear,

It is always amazing for me to see how my life brought me to this point, this moment. Sitting in front of my laptop, thinking of all things that had, is and will happen in my life.

When I read news this morning, I was surprised to know that in some countries, the number of people committing suicide is high. I am wondering why these people did the thing, then I figured out that most of the suicide doers have problems that they could not handle anymore, then they decided to kill themselves.

It is just so sad to see this situation. Other people have to pay so much money so that they can live, others just give it up, for something that ALL normal people should face : Problem.

No one in this world that does not have problem. I'm sure everybody does. But, why are they survived? To view the problem from good sides is one of the reasons. They learn. Then when another problem comes, they know how to face it. Problems may be different for each person. Sometimes it is too hard, too difficult, even though you tried hard to find the way-out. At the same time, people around you do not give a positive feedback towards you. Worse, they blame you for it.

At this point, you might be so desperate, sick and tired of your life.

Let's look around us again. In hospitals, people pay a lot of money just to give them some more time to live. Outside, many people are still struggling for their life, no matter what condition they are, poor, ugly, blind, handicapped, underestimated. Why do they appreciate life so much that they want to struggle for it? I guess it is because they love the life. They can hate their life when they know they are not physically perfect, but they don't. They look upward. They see life. From there, they start to love it, and struggle for it.

So, it is all depending on us. When the problem comes, how do we see it? Good or bad, it is all on our hand. To decide good will result good. Remember that when God sends the problem, it is all in one package with the solution. People just forget to open the other box.

Smile
And love your life.

Lost

If that should happen, at the end of the day, no matter how much money you have spent, how much power you have given, how many times you have prayed, it MUST happen.

We must be feeling sad to loose something, especially something that we love, that we care, that we devote our life for.

I have been experiencing one very-difficult lost, just a month ago. So depressing that it made me hated myself so much. I could not accept this. I have been doing so much to keep it, but at the end, I have to let it go.

The pain is hurt, but the lost is more. But my loved one said, "Everything happens for good reason. When something happens, then it is the destiny for it to happen." I put this words deep down in my heart and in my mind. And... I feel better now.